Hi! I'm Heather Tingle. If your home feels overwhelming and you cannot work out why it seems so much harder for you than it is for everyone else, you are not alone. You are not doing anything wrong, you just haven't got the tools yet to know how to fix it,

and thats where I can help.

I support neurodivergent adults and families to declutter and organise their homes in ways that actually work for their brains, so they have a safe space to decompress

instead of battling their home and floordrobes daily.

I am based in Sheffield and work with people all over Britain in their homes,

and worldwide via Zoom.

If you are thinking “why can’t I just sort this out?”

You might be great at your job. You might be the one everyone relies on.
At home it feels different. It feels like a shameful secret you're trying to hide. You tidy and it never lasts. You do blitzes and either end up in a bigger mess than where you started, or tired out but no better off. You move things around and nothing really changes. You can make decisions, but somehow the stuff never quite leaves the house.
You feel embarrassed letting people in. You are exhausted by the constant mental

noise of clutter and of having to remember where everything is on top of an

already full mental load.

Most decluttering advice assumes your brain works in a neat, linear way.

If you are autistic, ADHD, or both, that advice can make you feel worse, not better.

I get this because I lived it. I am autistic and ADHD.

I grew up in a family where clutter was just how life looked. Never allowing people into our home. Of always being embarrassed. I have been overwhelmed by my own stuff, paralysed by decisions, and frustrated that systems everyone else swore by just did not stick. Decluttering changed my life, but not because I suddenly became more disciplined or organised. It changed my life because I stopped trying to force myself into systems that were never designed for me. That is how I work with my clients too.

Absolutely No judgement.
No pressure.
No pretending you should be someone you are not.

This is not about a perfect home, like in a magazine or Pinterest board. This is about having a tidy and clean home that works for you, where you can answer the door without panic. Together we work through your things at your pace, with me alongside you. I help you make decisions, reduce the overwhelm, and set things up in ways that make sense for your life.

How we can work together

You can work with me:

One to one in your home anywhere in Great Britain
Virtually via Zoom if you are further away or prefer that
With ongoing support and accountability through my community and membership.

Everything is confidential and discreet. I meet you exactly where you are.

A bit about my experience

I am a member of the Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers (APDO) and work to their code of ethics. I am fully insured, DBS checked,

and registered with the ICO.

I have spoken on BBC Radio Sheffield as an Ask the Expert guest, was a founding director of Hoarding Disorders UK North, and my Declutter Your Home Planner became an Amazon best seller. I also host the Decluttering Untangled podcast, which is listened to around the world and sits in the top 2.5 percent globally.

But honestly, the most important thing I bring is lived experience and a deep understanding of how hard this can be, and I come without judgement to support you to declutter and organise your home.

You do not have to do this on your own

If your home feels like it is constantly draining your energy, or stopping you fully relaxing I can help. You do not need to explain why this feels hard, you do not have to justify how you got here. You can get real life changing support, like hundreds of others I've helped since becoming a Professional Declutterer in 2017.